In each of the 78 Tarot cards, you will find different aspects of love. Each of the Minor Arcana suits and the Major Arcana expresses love in different ways. Major Arcana displays the individual's soul or inner workings and how they can develop as a person within the relationship.

The first five major Arcana cards mostly symbolize personality traits, the type of person they are; The Fool - who jumps impetuously into things without a second thought. The Magician and High Priestess - illustrate people who are more independent and not so quite easy to build relationships with. The Empress and the Emperor - indicate individuals in search of a serious relationship. The Pope is an even stronger aspect illustrating total commitment. The Lovers – has similar aspects to The Pope. The Chariot - illustrates someone who looks to themselves first and holds on to their reins.

Based on your spread of cards, you will be able to tell immediately if there is a relationship worth building. Or whether you should at least prepare that it may not turn out as you want it to. I am not saying that you should end your relationship or not enter into one you have in mind. I am saying that if you choose to join the relationship, you should do so with a clear head and with your eyes open.

No matter the cards, there are patterns in every person’s life. Most people realize this at one time or another. These patterns or experiences keep repeating until we become aware of them and change our ways or do something about them.

Breaking a pattern can be the key to a successful relationship. Some cards indicate that it's probably better not to invest in a relationship or certainly prepare something not quite right. First and foremost is all of the number five cards. The number five cards in Tarot spreads represent limitations and drawbacks.

In a Celtic Cross spread, it is perfectly ok if a five-card comes up in a position designated for a particular period, a month, a week, etc. But not when they turn up in other situations that mean something else.

The Four of Cups display discontent, as does the Eight of Cups, which shows that something makes you very dissatisfied or unhappy, perhaps not being certain about your partner’s feelings.

The Four of Pentacles is a strong indication of control. The three of Swords always indicate conflicts, arguments, or break-ups. Four of Swords represents sickness or ailment. If the Four of Swords dealt in the position of either you or your partner, you should be on the lookout for suspicious behavior or secrets that do not benefit your relationship.

The Eight of Swords indicates a lack of self-confidence. Either you consider yourself lacking in some way, or you feel trapped.

Cards nine and Ten of Swords show a feeling of emptiness, pointlessness, and despair, traits that are not good to build a relationship on.

Wands' suite is a masculine suite that displays passion, sexual enthusiasm, frustration, and male dominance, which can be used to women’s advantage. It is the suite that indicates the strongest desire. Without Wands, there will not be a lot of sex in a relationship. Wands control desire. It is quite usual for Wands to appear in a Tarot spread whenever a man is interested in a woman, not just for sex but more in the energy form of a masculine infatuation.

Wands and Cups are very similar energies. They are expressed from the feminine and masculine viewpoints. 

Love in the suite of Wands - Masculine suit

The suite of Pentacles is a feminine suit. It indicates a more practical and tactical nature, which usually comes concerning men. Men tend to take one step at a time while ensuring that they have a steady foothold that assures them of physical well-being, comfort, and security. It is much the same way that most men enter into stable relationships. In a Tarot spread, when a man displays his feelings toward a relationship using Pentacles, he is usually taking the relationship seriously. He is interested in developing the relationship further. Unless, of course, it is the Five of Pentacles, which means he feels trapped. Beware of the fact that Pentacles can also represent a need for control, which is the feminine aspect of a man.

Love in the suite of Pentacles - Feminine energy